Has this thought ever passed through your mind?
“How old should I become for others, not to obey me but at least
to listen or may be even consider my opinion?” (I am sure this thought has
passed through some of your minds in your little span of life) and especially
if you are the youngest of the herd in your family then I will bet you for a
hundred rupees that you have thought about the same.
Well, this similar thought happens to come by my mind, once
every time my opinion gets rejected or my folks don’t give an ear to what I
say. But everyone gets to smile or be proud of something, right…? Yes, I also
get to be proud when my opinion for some reason or other (may be because they
thought that it was practically right) gets to be the final decisionJ (may be not always but, Yes
quite frequently)
But why can’t they just accept my opinion in the first
place!!! I have come up with a few
points which I think may be the
reason for my opinion not being considered:
ü May be they
think that 22 is not an average age to make decisions
ü They
might have felt that I have not seen the world enough, made more decisions or
faced dramatic situations in life like them (to make more sense in malayalam “nammal kure onam undittilla” compared to
them)
ü Or is
it because I act all hyper, lively, playful, crack jokes and make fun that they
don’t consider me matured enough to make decisions?
Hmmm…. I think these may be quite a few of the reasons for which my
opinion is given a moderate importance.
What do you think? Do tell me if you have
faced the same situation, (I don’t wanna think that I am the only one in this
world who thinks about crazy stuff like this)
Share with me if you
have also thought at some point of your life this very line, “I wish I would grow
up soon” (so that they listen to me for once)